31 Great Quotes About Being In Your 20s | Thought Catalog
Many moons ago, people in their early twenties were all settling down, getting married and popping out children all over the shop. Now. In both your early 20s and late 20s, dating can seem like an adventure of discovery. The years are spent discovering how you function in. The prospect of dating someone in her twenties becomes less appealing as you get older. At some From your early twenties and on into your early thirties, you should feel free to explore your I didn't get into fitness until my late twenties.
You know the power of focus. A lot of us who are single now in our 30s spent our 20s focused on building careers, traveling, or figuring out who we are and what's important to us. Now, perhaps we have decided we'd like to focus on building a life with someone, or on having a family. I find that whatever we put our focus on is what we draw in. So, we're much more likely to draw in the type of relationship we are looking for because we're a lot clearer on what we want. You see the red flags sooner and get out.
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Raise your hand if you ended up investing months or years of your life in a completely dead-end relationship because you either rationalized all the red flags away or completely ignored them.
My hand is raised. These relationships usually do not leave you better than they found you.
Personally, I have no time for this anymore. Now, when I see the red flags early on, I don't move forward with the guy, You recognize your worth and value. The reason so many women ignore or rationalize away the red flags is because they feel desperate to be in a relationship.
As women, we have been trained by the media, our parents, society, culture, to believe that our worth is based solely on whether or not we're married especially by a certain age or have a boyfriend. So, in our 20s, we may have behaved with a lack of self-respect or self-esteem, and acted needy and desperate in order to validate ourselves through a man. But by our 30s, we have learned to see that our true value has nothing to do with a man or being a relationship.
You know that relationships do not make or break your life. We know that relationships are a truly amazing addition to our lives, but they do not make our lives. By our 30s, we have created happy, full lives for ourselves, and know that we don't need a relationship to make us whole. Plus, we've been through breakups and found out that, surprise, our lives didn't actually end!
You have better sex. We have experienced what we like in bed by now, and aren't afraid to ask for it. Also, when we were having sex in our 20s, we were constantly worrying if our stomach fat was hanging out, or how our butt looked.
By our 30s, we care less about how we look and more about just straight up enjoying it. You know what you like and what you believe in.
10 Quotes That Perfectly Sum Up Being in Your Twenties
We believe in past lives, we yell VERY loudly when we get excited about something, we like Star Wars, going to bed by We don't need to pretend that we are into things like camping, sports, or certain bands or food the way we we may have done in our 20s to try to get a guy to like us it always come back to bite us in the ass anyways.
This is a false premise. Restaurants and cafes continue to let people over 29 through their doors. They even serve them alcohol. Holden Desalles Start your twenties with a lot of friends and leave with a few good ones. People faded away into their careers and relationships.
Fights were had and never resolved. Chaka Khan 26 shows up in the middle of coffee one morning and hands you a freshly printed memo that reads: Jessica Blankenship I like getting older. Things take shape later on. Crispin Glover The path to whatever your notion of success is will likely not be linear.
Your 20s will be full of failures — let them happen and learn as you go. We make it work. We get that money. The odds may be stacked against us and yet we still find a way to triumph.
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Gabrielle Moss Your 20s are not by default the only time in your life that you can pick up and go, or that you can try out different careers. The space where comfort and risk come together is a space where learning and growing are most likely to happen. Lena Dunham [H]appiness comes out of being willing to do your work in your twenties to find out who you are, what you love.
Candace Bushnell In my early twenties, I had no idea who I was.